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Lauren Kunstler's avatar

I am someone who likes to just forge ahead and trample through rather than taking time and I have been really careful to match the pacing suggested each week and honestly-- it makes me *miss* the characters and gives me time to marinate? A happy surprise as someone who does not have patience as one of my virtues.

The quote that I cannot get out of my head this week is: "What is that, my love?" said Mr. Casaubon (he always said "my love" when his manner was the coldest.) (pg 215). This hit me like a slap, it's such a throwaway moment to some degree because we just push forward but the mismatch between Casaubon saying the "right words" and acting in such a cold manner, the passive aggressiveness of that is so beyond. I am ready to throw Casaubon into the nearest dumpster. Re: Dorothea, I keep having the Taylor Swift lyric "how can a person know everything at 18, and nothing at 22?" rattling around. No one is ever quite as sure of themselves as you are at 18 and then you get absolutely knocked down when you try and launch into the world and it calls EVERYTHING into question. I feel terrible for her as she was sure she knew it all, but she is learning how little she actually understands. I work as a therapist in my day job and I primarily see adolescents and it is actually incredible how much this translates forever in how young people exist and experience the world. Eliot truly pulled a timeless theme, it's almost hard to watch.

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Chris Grace's avatar

In Chapter 22, Dorothea and Will are discussing beauty and Dorothea is struggling to find meaning in the art around her, so focused is she on doing things for others. Will speaks my favorite quote of this section: "The best piety is to enjoy - when you can. You are doing the most then to save the earth's character as an agreeable planet. And enjoyment radiates."

George Eliot pins our humanity to the page, and I am astonished every time I read something that strikes me as true for us now, as it was for her 150 years ago.

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