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Kate D.'s avatar

My personality and ambitions are just like Undine's. (I've finished the book, so I'm not saying this without knowing what that can lead to!) She's in my Resting B*tch Face Heroines club with Anna Karenina, Scarlett O'Hara from Gone with the Wind, Kristin Lavransdatter, and Becky Sharp from Vanity Fair. They have the "I will get what I want and I don't care how it hurts other people" ambition and drive.

When I recommended Gone with the a Wind to a friend, he texted me, "Scarlett is the most horrible character in fiction." At the same moment, I texted him, "Scarlett is just like me!" 🤣 I don't presume to say this is a good thing about me, but know thyself!

Often when I read these books and see exactly the way I think in print (where how other people might be affected by my single-minded pursuit of my goals doesn't occur to me in the least), it makes me glad to be Catholic and I head out to confession!

Without seeing these characters, I could be just as uncaring about other people and not notice. Or just be surprised when other people tell me my actions hurt them. Because of these excellently drawn literary women (when I read Anna Karenina I said, "How did Tolstoy see inside my head??!") I can intentionally choose to care about other people, since it doesn't naturally occur to me to do so.

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Katherine Lamb-Legrand's avatar

I can't wait to start!

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