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My single favorite quote was “Society never made the preposterous demand that a man should think as much about his own qualifications for making a charming girl happy as he thinks of hers for making himself happy. As if a man could choose not only his wife but his wife’s husband!” 😂😂

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I also found that scene of Dorothea looking at the miniature of Casaubon's aunt to be so tragic! And this brief line from the narrator, when D is talking to Celia and Celia asks if she would recommend a honeymoon to Rome, shattered my heart --

"No one would ever know what she thought of a wedding journey to Rome."

It's so, so heartbreaking to think that D will carry the weight of her secret shame, sadness, and other confusing feelings from that trip to Rome with her for the rest of her life and never confide in anyone about it, not even Celia. These two points (Casaubon's aunt + this line) together also reminded me of Daphne Du Maurier's Rebecca -- a young, idealistic woman getting trapped in a marriage that is so much different than what she thought it would be in. I need her to meet up with Ladislaw again, ASAP!

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