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Joan Spilman's avatar

Writing is hard. Graduate school is all consuming. I'm so glad to be out and "normal" again. I once lost a night's sleep because I couldn't remember if I'd used a colon or a semi-colon. Sounds silly now, but it's true.

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haley larsen, phd's avatar

Oooof. I believe you. I used to lose sleep over things like that. And I had a recurring nightmare that I forgot to go to my math class. What math class? There was no math class!

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Matthew's avatar

I remember twice as much work in 9 grad units compared to 15 undergrad units. 😱🤯

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haley larsen, phd's avatar

lol it’s so much work! The assignments get more dense too. So it’s more work in terms of volume but also in depth and density.

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Michelle Lester's avatar

I teach younger students online but love your idea about the one page ‘printable’. I’ve been aiming to give them something similar - on a kind of Cornell Notes template - but struggle to stick with one side! I guess I should just reduce the space for their responses, knowing the ‘page’ can expand to fit!

I always love to read your very practical ideas 😍

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The Middling Place's avatar

I’m in the muck of it right now. I’m finishing coursework this semester and start quals next. Any advice on how to read ~200 novels and year and remember them. I’ve got two kids (3 and 1 year old) and don’t have the time to read all day, so I’m doing my best to think about how to be creative with my reading time.

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haley larsen, phd's avatar

Yes! I’ve got you!! ❤️

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Kerry Sutherland's avatar

I love that shelf, too, can't imagine why.

I understand your ALS dream - when I finally got into the Henry James Review I was stunned. Years and years of thinking it would never happen. It's still surreal, even after several years.

I print everything. It's almost a problem. But there's a big difference when I can hold it in my hand, write and highlight on it, and add it to a binder.

I'm glad I had a full time job and was a single parent during all my grad school adventures. It kept me from getting too sucked into "the life" and was like a sort of nightmare/dream I slipped into when my kids went to sleep. The classes were one thing; the research, the writing, quite another. I'm so glad I did it all, though. Writing that dissertation taught me what I could do, and there is so much I've written since that I never would have tackled without proving to myself I could finish such a project.

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haley larsen, phd's avatar

It *is* surreal to get into a journal you love, isn't it? I think, in some ways, we build them up to be more than they are. But, in other ways, we're not over-inflating them. They really do mean so much to us and to our thinking. Is your article available to read online? I'd love to check it out!

Having a full time job PLUS single parenting during graduate school sounds so exhausting! I feel so lucky that I was able to mostly put my other parts of my life "on hold" for a few years. But it was pretty exhausting, and funnily enough, it does feel like a kind of "dream" I slipped out of when I graduated.

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Kerry Sutherland's avatar

thank you for wanting to look at it - you have pay to read it online, unfortunately.

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Ashley C.'s avatar

Great lessons to have learned! I think one of the important things about college, particularly grad school, is that it is hard, and that forces you to sit with and work through difficult things.

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